THE CONFIDENT BODY PODCAST - Brain-based strategies and self-compassion practices to unlock your full potential

Fuel your body, unleash your soul: The podcast for women ready to lose weight and fully embrace their unique gifts and talents. Learn how to transform your body and mind with brain science and self-compassion. Do you know *what* to do to lose weight but can’t find the time or energy to actually do it? Are you the one always behind the camera taking pictures of everyone else on vacation because you don’t like the way you look? Are you ready to stop waiting to lose weight in order to start participating in life? In this podcast, you’ll find shame-free weight loss solutions that set you free from the exhausting cycle of being ”on a diet” or ”off the wagon”. Together, we’ll help you overcome self-sabotaging behavior through simple tools, brain hacks, and steps to rewire your brain for weight loss. If you’re ready to stop feeling like you are the problem and lose weight in a way that makes you feel like you can trust yourself, then you’re in the right place. Hi, I’m Lizzie. Welcome to the Confident Body Podcast where we talk about all the mental and emotional parts of weight loss that diets don’t tell you. I spent most of my life feeling self-conscious about my body, looking for the next diet, or wishing I could just lose a few pounds. After feeling massive imposter syndrome teaching fitness, I began to wonder if there was more to feeling great than just nutrition and exercise. I realized that feeling confident in your skin is more about what’s between your ears than what’s on your plate. I began to understand how diets go against the way your brain is naturally wired and how diets make it so hard to lose weight long term. I learned specific strategies and tools to work WITH my brain to lose weight for good and finally feel confident in my body. And you can too. If you want to look in the mirror and see what’s RIGHT about you…Learn solutions that are easy and fit your busy life…Find out how to train your brain for weight loss…and love yourself and your body all the way down the scale, then let’s go. lizzie@confidentbody.coach www.confidentbody.coach www.confidentbody.coach/tips

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7 hours ago

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Ugh… this is going to take forever”?
Maybe it was after stepping on the scale and seeing no change—again. Maybe it was that moment when you realized how far you feel from where you want to be. Maybe it was when you just wanted to feel comfortable in your jeans… and the button still tugged.
And then that thought hits: It’s just too much. It’s going to take too long.
Why does it feel like everything worthwhile takes too long—and why does that one little thought carry so much power that it stops us before we’ve even get a chance to gain momentum?
In today’s episode, we’re peeling back the layers of the “It’ll take too long” story. You’ll learn:
Why your brain naturally resists slow progress ( that’s normal!)
How impatience is sneakier than you think, and how it sabotages you
What to do instead, so you can actually start feeling good as you go
So if you’re tired of rushing, quitting, and starting over… and you’re ready to quiet the tick tock of your inner countdown timer and build a life that lasts—let’s dive in.
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Wednesday Jun 25, 2025

Have you ever found yourself trapped in the endless cycle of "shoulds"? You know, those nagging thoughts that tell you what you should be doing, how you should look, and who you should be? It's like having a not-so-helpful, naggy backseat driver living in your head, right?
But does listening to those "shoulds" actually get you anywhere? Or do they just slow you down, leaving you feeling guilty and stuck?
In today's episode, we're diving headfirst into the murky waters of those "shoulds" swimming around in your head. We'll explore why we're so afraid of trying and failing, and how we can start to break free from the guilt they bring.
Today we’re gonna uncover the secrets to noticing and depersonalizing those "should" thoughts, and learn how to question them like a pro - or even - a hero. Plus, we'll sprinkle in some wisdom from voices you respect, helping you see those "shoulds" in a whole new light.
So, are you ready to shake off the shackles of the shoulds and choose your own path forward? 
Aw yeah! Let’s go!

Wednesday Jun 18, 2025

Have you ever had that awful, sinking feeling after a “bad” food day… where all your progress feels like it’s circling the drain?
You ate something that wasn’t “on plan,” skipped a workout, maybe even said, “Screw it” and dove face-first into a bag of chips. And then, the spiral starts.
Your brain chimes in with the ultimate gut-punch: “See? You messed up. Again. You’re never going to get this right.”
 And that voice… oh, that voice is ruthless, right? Like it’s been waiting all day to pounce.
“You always do this. You can’t be trusted. What’s the point?”
It’s like every time you slip, even just a little, your mind uses it as proof that you’re broken. That this won’t work. That you’re back at square one. Again
So today, we’re going to talk about what’s really going on when you mess up—and why it’s not the mess-up that matters most. We’ll cover:
– Why slipping up isn’t the actual problem—it’s how you interpret it – How to stop turning one off-moment into a character assassination – And how to bounce back with confidence and kindness instead of shame and spirals
If you’re tired of letting one bad moment become a reason to quit, you’re in the right place. Let’s untangle the mess-up mindset and find a better way forward.
Are you ready to unpack the pressure, defuse the drama, and find your footing again with grace and guts? Let’s go!
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Wednesday Jun 11, 2025

Have you ever watched yourself make the same decision, at the same time, in the same situation—again and again—and thought, “Why do I always do this?” Maybe it’s Friday night. You feel tired, drained, maybe a little rebellious. You think, “I’ll just loosen up this weekend and start over Monday.” And then Monday rolls around, and you’re standing in front of the mirror, wondering how you got back here—again.
Welcome back to our 6 part series on excuses called Excuses Exposed. Today we’re talking about Predictable patterns. 
Predictable patterns are the loops we know by heart. The scripts our brain has memorized. The decisions we almost expect ourselves to make. And the more often they happen, the more permanent they start to feel.
But what if “this always happens” didn’t mean you were doomed to repeat it? What if it just meant you were in a habit loop that can be rewritten?
Before we dig into all that, let’s do a final recap of where we’ve been on this excuses journey.
In Episode 1, we talked about excuses as mental habits—not personality flaws. You learned the Excuse-Proofing Process: Pause, Ponder, Pivot, Practice.
In Episode 2, we covered emotional excuses—when food feels like a reward, relief, or rebellion.
Episode 3 unpacked minimizing excuses—the “just a bite” and “this doesn’t count” thoughts that add up over time.
In Episode 4, we tackled scarcity excuses—the “now or never” mindset that tricks you into overeating because you think it’s your only chance.
Last week, in Episode 5, we talked about overwhelm excuses—those “it’s too hard” and “I don’t have time” thoughts that show up when your brain feels like it’s drowning.
And now, here we are, at the finale. Predictable patterns. The loops you see coming. The places you fall off track in ways that feel frustratingly familiar. Let’s talk about what those patterns mean—and how to change them without needing a complete personality transplant.
Ready? Let’s go!
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Wednesday Jun 04, 2025

Have you ever looked at your to-do list, then looked at the fridge, and thought, “I just can’t deal—I need something to eat”? Or said to yourself, “I want to take care of myself, but I don’t have the energy, I don’t have the time, and honestly, I just don’t have it in me today”?
That’s overwhelm talking. And when overwhelm takes the wheel, the drive-through starts to look like self-care.
Welcome back to our 6 part series on excuses called Excuses Exposed. Today we’re talking about Overwhelm excuses. 
These excuses don’t always sound dramatic. They sound tired. Logical. They sound like you are protecting your sanity. And in some ways, you are. Your brain is doing its best to help you cope. The problem is, it often trades short-term relief for long-term frustration.
Before we dig into that, let’s do a quick recap.
In Episode 1, we covered how excuses aren’t flaws—they’re just protective habits your brain uses to dodge discomfort. You learned how to Pause, Ponder, Pivot, and Practice.
In Episode 2, we tackled emotional excuses. The kind that show up when food becomes your comfort blanket.
In Episode 3, we talked about minimizing excuses—those little “doesn’t count” moments that quietly chip away at your progress.
And in Episode 4, we exposed scarcity excuses. Thoughts that made food feel limited, special, or socially required.
For today Let’s unpack overwhelm.When life feels too full, the mental load. The pressure. and your brain says, “Forget it.This is all too hard.”
Ready? Let’s go!
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Wednesday May 28, 2025

Have you ever thought, “I better eat this now—it’s my only chance”?Or, “I can’t throw that away. That would be wasteful.”Or maybe, “This is vacation food. It doesn’t count.” 
Welcome back to our 6 part series on excuses called Excuses Exposed. Today we’re talking about Scarcity excuses. Scarcity excuses love to sound noble. Practical. Even generous. But underneath all that helpful-sounding logic is fear. Fear of missing out. Fear of being wasteful. Fear that if you don’t eat it now, you’ll never get the chance again. Scarcity thinking doesn’t just affect your choices—it erodes your trust in yourself.
Before we get into that, let’s do a quick recap.
In Episode 1, we laid the groundwork: excuses are just mental habits designed to protect you from discomfort. We talked through the Excuse-Proofing process—Pause, Ponder, Pivot, Practice.
In Episode 2, we looked at emotional excuses—like “I deserve it” or “I just want it”—where food gets used as a shortcut to reward, comfort, or relief.
Then in Episode 3, we explored minimizing excuses—those quiet little “just one bite” moments that add up more than we think.
Today, we’re looking at scarcity excuses—thoughts that make food feel like a limited-time offer, or a social obligation, or a moral duty to the Clean Plate Club.
Let’s dig into the fear of not having enough—even when you’re already full.
Ready? Let’s go!
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Wednesday May 21, 2025

Have you ever thought, “Just one more bite,” or “This isn’t a real snack”? And then before you know it, you’ve grazed through dinner while cooking it, tasted everything twice, and now you’re halfway into the evening wondering why you’re still hungry... or worse, why you feel stuffed but not satisfied?
Welcome back to our 6 part series on excuses called Excuses Exposed. Today we’re talking about Minimizing excuses. Minimizing excuses are slippery. They sound harmless. They dress themselves up in logic. “It’s just a little taste.” “It’s not like I’m bingeing.” “This one day won’t make a difference.”
But if you’ve ever felt like you’re working so hard and not seeing results, it might be these quiet little decisions that are clogging up the system.
Before we dive in, let’s do a quick check-in on where we are in the series.
In Episode 1, we talked about what excuses really are—mental habits, not moral failings—and we walked through the Excuse-Proofing Process: Pause, Ponder, Pivot, Practice.
In Episode 2, we got personal and unpacked emotional excuses. That’s when food becomes your therapist, your reward, your stress relief. And we looked at the real needs hiding underneath the hunger.
Today is all about the excuses that don’t scream. They whisper. 
Ready? Let’s go!
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 
 

Wednesday May 14, 2025

Have you ever found yourself standing in the kitchen after a long day, thinking, “I just need something sweet”? Not because you're hungry. Not because it's time for dinner. But because your nerves are fried, your patience has packed up and left, and your brain is screaming, “I need a win.” or “I want to relax and now it’s my turn.”
Or maybe it’s not even about stress. Maybe you had a good day. You got a lot done, you kept things together, and now you want a reward. And that reward just happens to look like a cookie. Or a drive-thru order. Or that giant glass of wine that can fit the whole bottle in one glass.
The problem is that cookies aren't about hunger at all. It’s your brain asking to be seen, soothed, or celebrated.
Welcome back to our 6 part series on excuses called Excuses Exposed. Today we’re talking about emotional excuses. The ones that whisper things like, “I deserve this,” or “I just want it,” or “It’s not fair.” These are the moments when food becomes your therapist, your reward, or your tiny rebellion.
And listen, I get it. These thoughts feel true. But what they’re really doing is putting food in charge of your feelings—and that’s a lot of pressure to put on a bag of chips.
Before we dig in, let’s do a quick recap of where we’ve been and where we’re headed.
In Episode 1, we broke down what excuses really are. Not signs of failure. Not personality flaws. Just mental habits—ways your brain tries to avoid discomfort. We talked about the four-step Excuse-Proofing Process: Pause, Ponder, Pivot, and Practice.
Today, we’re taking that process and applying it to one of the most common excuse families: emotional eating.
But for now, let’s get into the messy, very human world of emotional eating.
Ready? Let’s go!
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Wednesday May 07, 2025

Have you ever said to yourself, “I know what to do... I just don’t do it”? Maybe you’ve had that moment where you’re standing in front of the fridge, not even hungry, thinking, “Why am I here again?” Or you planned to go for a walk, but Netflix and the couch made an offer your brain just couldn’t refuse.
It’s frustrating, right? Because you’re smart. You’ve read the books. You’ve probably downloaded half the internet on what to eat, how to move, how to lose the weight. So why does it feel like your actions keep skipping town without your permission?
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Welcome to Excuses, Exposed — a special series from the Confident Body Podcast. If you’ve ever felt like you know what to do to lose weight, but just can’t seem to follow through… this one’s for you. Because guess what? You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not lacking motivation. You’re just running up against some very convincing stories your brain has been repeating for years. Stories that sound helpful… but quietly keep you stuck.
In this six-part series, we’re going to shine a light on the most common mental habits—excuses—that hold you back from feeling confident in your body and consistent in your habits. Each episode will walk you through a specific type of excuse, break it down with real-life weight loss examples, and give you simple tools to recognize it and respond on purpose.
Here’s what we’ll cover:
In Episode 1, we’ll start with the basics: what excuses really are, why they feel so true in the moment, and the four-step process you can use to work through them without shame or self-sabotage.
Episode 2 dives into emotional excuses—those moments when food becomes your therapist, your cheerleader, or your quick escape.
In Episode 3, we’ll unpack minimizing excuses—the “just one bite won’t hurt” kind of thoughts that seem small, but add up fast.
Episode 4 tackles scarcity excuses—the “now or never” stories that push you to clean your plate or eat like it’s your last supper.
Episode 5 is all about overwhelm excuses—the kind that show up when life feels too heavy and food feels like the only relief.
And finally, in Episode 6, we’ll take on predictable patterns—the weekend spirals, the holiday free-for-alls, the “I’ll start over Monday” trap—and how to break the cycle without needing perfection.
Each episode is designed to help you pause, rethink, and pivot with purpose. You’ll get real, relatable examples, and a tiny action step to take with you into the week.
So if you’re ready to stop arguing for your limitations and start leading with intention, this is your invitation to begin.
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Today, we’re going to talk about why excuses happens. And no, it’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or secretly allergic to vegetables. It’s because you’re human. And your brain is doing what it was wired to do—protect you.
But if we don’t call out the excuses for what they are, they start running the show. They keep us stuck in a loop—same weight, same thoughts, same late-night snacking pattern on repeat.
So in today’s episode, I’m going to show you how to recognize those sneaky little thoughts that sound reasonable in the moment—but are actually holding you back. And I’m going to teach you the four-step process that helps you Excuse-Proof your mind.
Yes, your brain will still throw excuses at you. It’s not going to become a motivational guru overnight. But with this process, you won’t have to believe every thought it offers you. You’ll be able to pause, question, and move forward anyway.
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle 

Tired of Chasing the Scale

Wednesday Apr 30, 2025

Wednesday Apr 30, 2025

Have you ever felt like the harder you chase weight loss, the more drained, discouraged, and disconnected you feel. It’s like chasing weight loss turns into a full-time job you never signed up for — exhausting, never-ending, and somehow never enough, no matter how hard you try? Like no matter what you do, the number on the scale holds all the power.
Chasing weight loss is like staring straight at the sun. It seems so bright and promising at first — like it’s going to solve everything — until it just leaves you squinting, burned out, and wondering why you’re so tired all the time.
It’s interesting how reaching a certain number feels so urgent... but even when you get close, it still doesn’t feel like it’s fixing the real problem.
The problem isn’t that you want to lose weight, but how you’re seeing it. There’s a different way to approach your goals in weight loss. One that doesn’t leave you fried or frustrated.
Today, we’ll cover:
why chasing the number actually burns you out faster,
what you’re really hoping weight loss will give you,
and how to use a simple tool — a PRISM — to reconnect to the real reasons you started this journey in the first place.
We’ll also talk about how to stop letting the scale steal your joy and build real momentum, no matter what the number says.
Are you ready to swap endless striving for strong, steady success?
 
https://confidentbody.coach/tips/
BOOK: You Are A Miracle

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